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A man found an abandoned baby in a subway. It led to an unexpected family and a beautiful children's story.
A New York family who came together by chance 21 years ago has now shared their remarkable story in a children's book.
Pete
Mercurio was walking out the door to meet his then-partner (now
husband) Danny Stewart for dinner in August 2000 when his phone rang. It
was Stewart, calling to tell him he'd be late. He'd found an abandoned
baby in the subway and had called 911 from a payphone.
Stewart,
a social worker, had spotted a little bundle wrapped in a sweatshirt
while walking through an eerily empty station. At first, he thought it
was a doll, perhaps left behind by a child, until he saw a tiny leg
move. He quickly discovered it was a newborn baby, the umbilical cord
still attached. The baby boy was just hours old when Stewart found him. "He
had actually tried to get on an express train and couldn't get on one,"
Mercurio recalls of Stewart's path that fateful day. "The fact that he
even got on a local was kind of miraculous because who knows if he had
gotten on an express if he'd even had found the baby."
Mercurio
says something made Stewart glance back at the bundle and see the
newborn's small motion. The baby, a boy, was alive and breathing.
Authorities said he was just hours old when they arrived. Mercurio ran to the station, a block away from his apartment, and found Stewart there with two police officers. "One of them was carrying the baby in his arms," he says. "Just a chill raced up my spine. Like, it's an unbelievable thing. "The baby boy was transported to a nearby hospital, and the men were overcome with emotion at what had just occurred.
A stroke of good luck smoothed the adoption.
The
baby, who was named Daniel Ace Doe after Stewart and the A/C/E subway
line, was in the state's care while a citywide search was underway for
the boy's parents. Three
months later, Stewart was asked to testify at a hearing about the day
the baby was found. The judge asked him an unexpected question.
"In
December of 2000, at that hearing, the judge asked him, 'Would you be
interested in adopting?' He said, 'Yes, but I know it's not that easy.'
She said, 'Well, it can be.' We didn't know what she meant by that,"
Mercurio says.
The two became foster parents to the baby, who they named Kevin, and adopted him two years later in December of 2002.
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Pete, Kevin and Danny in 2007. |
When the couple spoke with the judge in 2012, they asked her how she was able to help facilitate Kevin's adoption so quickly. In
one of many small miracles that brought Kevin to them, the judge said
that at the time Kevin was found there was a pilot program in New York
that gave her the authority to expedite the adoption process in specific
cases of abandonment to place a baby in a loving home. "She
was able to make quick decisions to place that baby in a pre-adoptive
home as quickly as possible," Mercurio says. "So he didn't languish in
the system."
Kevin is now a senior in college
At
the time Kevin arrived, the couple didn't have a lot of money. They
were in student-loan debt, but they made it work. Family and friends got
them everything they needed for Kevin, and they figured it out along
the way.
Kevin,
now 21, is a student at Swarthmore College. Mercurio is sharing their
family's story with Kevin.
"We
still can't believe it. I mean, we believe it because we have a
21-year-old kid that's graduating from college this spring," Mercurio
says. "I love this kid more than anything in the world, I really didn't
know this kind of love existed in this world until my son came into our
life.
As Kevin grew up, the two discussed their family story with him. "We
talked about how our family became a family openly in front of him.
When he went in social gatherings, [if] anybody would ask, we didn't
shield him from hearing it from a very young age," Mercurio says. They
wanted Kevin to feel positive about their family origin story, so
Mercurio wrote a book about it that they read to him every night. When
he was five, Kevin realized it was about him. "I
pasted together a book of his story, which tells the whole thing about
Danny being on the subway and the baby being found," Mercurio says.
Last
year, that very personal story was published with the title "Our Subway
Baby," which Mercurio calls a "love letter to our son."
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The book cover for "Our Subway Baby" |
While Kevin's biological parents are still unknown, Mercurio says they feel only compassion for them. "One way or another, that's a desperate measure to take. And I can only
imagine the anguish that was leaving your child," he says. "We've always
told Kevin from a very young age that he was left out of love, so that
he could be found and cared for. We never used the word abandonment or
abandoned. We said she left you where you could be found by us."
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8 comments:
Jacki, this really is a touching good news story. Not only the parents were great but also the judge who decided so wisely. Sometimes things come together ....
A great story about love and commitment. Thanks for sharing.
Dear Ealenor, Thank you for your kind comment, yes, it is good to hear the good stories. It's fun finding them.
Thanks Denise, yes, I love findng the feel good's to share. Loved being with you, a proper thank you on it's way soon. I love you.
That's definitely a great story, really happy for them!
Thanks Brandon, Yes, I enjoyed finding and sharing it.
BTW: Roberto and Dawn called Saturday night and we mentioned you.
That was a definite meant to be story. I love it. Jet setter
Thanks Jetsetter, a great story, an real. ;o)
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