Tuesday, June 14, 2022

Day 3586: Tired Hero.



"Tired Hero" photo, digital collage.





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12-year-old Brody Ridder was devastated when his classmates wouldn't sign his yearbook.

Getting your yearbook signed is, for many kids, a fun end-of-year ritual that preserves memories. But for 12-year-old Brody Ridder, it did not start out as a happy occasion. When the sixth grader from Westminster, Colorado, was picked up by his mother, she noticed that he didn't have his usual cheerful disposition. Remembering that she'd received an email about school yearbooks being delivered that day, she asked him if he'd gotten a lot of his friends to sign his book. And that's when he began to cry.

Except for notes by two teachers, the pages were almost blank. It turns out that many of the kids in class refused to sign Brody's yearbook when he asked. “A couple of his classmates jotted down their names—but there were no messages,” shared his mother Cassandra. “There was nothing about how smart, funny and awesome he is.”

Instead, Brody had signed his yearbook himself. He left a heartbreaking message that read, “I hope you make some more friends.”

Devastated for her son, Cassandra posted Brody's empty yearbook to a Facebook page for parents from the school. Along with the photo, she wrote, “My poor son. Doesn’t seem like things are getting any better. 2 teachers and a total of 2 students wrote in his yearbook. Despite Brody asking all kinds of kids to sign it. So Brody took it upon himself to write to himself. My heart is shattered. Teach your kids kindness.”

Cassandra says that Brody, who is interested in chess, fencing, and dinosaurs, is misunderstood by his classmates, who can't relate to his interests. When he comes home, he reports to his mom that he's made fun of because his “ears stick out” and because he's thin. He sits alone at lunch and plays by himself at recess. But after her Facebook message, it looks like Brody may not be sitting alone for long.

After Cassandra's messages, older kids took it upon themselves to visit Brody. He had messages from kids in junior high and high school. They filled the pages with messages that told him “you are so loved, don't listen to kids who tell you different” and “you're worth it and you matter.” Some even left their phone numbers so that Brody could reach out to them. Brody told his mom, “This is the best day ever.” And unsurprisingly, the same kids who had refused to sign his yearbook were suddenly in line to leave him a message. Now, he's looking forward to seventh grade and enjoying school with all of his new friends.




Update ...

 
Monday was day class this week since I can't go tomorrow, as usual. Then I got gas, a sandwich and some groceries at Trader Joe's before going home.
The update is that the guys made it home today after a great weekend.

 

GH#2, Jake's birthday was today, Monday, and I always call and sing to the close family members on their birthday, so Jake has already been appropriately punished, it's another a tradition.


And, today, Tuesday is Connor's (GH#3's best friend since grade school) 21st birthday, so Happy, Happy Birthday Connor! Glad you could be here.


 
 
 
A 7-minute video, Quantanameahere.


 
Just because ...
 
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Smiles for Tuesday ...
 
 
 




 



 
 
 
   
 

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6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Loved the story about Brody. It turned out good and it was a beautiful life lesson. My younger brother Seon was a loner who must have felt like Brody. Seon past away twoo years ago and before he died I found his high school yearbooks. He lived in Oregon with his wife. He was on Hospice care and I was happy to have visited two days before he passed. I felt a bit sad to see so few genuine comments in his books. Sometimes there is nothing that could have changed how things turn out. This was before cell phones and facebook.

john said...

I like everything you did digitally with the Ukrainian President’s portrait. I can not even imagine the stress he is carrying on his shoulders.:-)

elenor said...

Great blog again, Jacki! From the start to the last smile, which I especially love.
Have a fine evening!

jacki long said...

Dear Anonymous, I thank you for your story ,,, there are so many stories out there, most we don't know. When you sign in anonymous, it's okay to leave a name or a hint?

jacki long said...

Thank you, John, yes, I agree, but aren't they lucky to have such a great leader. My Aunt Fern used to say that we are not given more than we can handle, but I'm sure he might question that?

jacki long said...

Thanks again, Elenor, for you kind words. It makes me feel good when you like the blog. Have a great week!