Friday, December 12, 2025

Day 4858: The White Envelope & Capybara and Howler Monkey.

"Amelia Earhart": postage stamp, junk collage, journal page.

 





                                                                       
  

Want music?




 Click: Temptations, Just My Imagination.
 
As shown earlier, here


I opened the beautiful package from Rad Nana (Colorado) on my birthday and have two new books to read over the holiday vacation. Thank you, Rad Nana! She always has the best books to read. Another example of being blessed indeed. The birthday was quiet at home, fielding calls, messages, songs, e-mails and a nap. A few get-togethers are scheduled in the coming days. Thanks to all for your caring.


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The White Envelope.



 

THE LITTLE WHITE ENVELOPE 
 
"It's just a small, white envelope stuck among the branches of our Christmas tree. No name, no identification, no inscription. It has peeked through the branches of our tree for the past ten years.
It all began because my husband Mike hated Christmas. Oh, not the true meaning of Christmas, but the commercial aspects of it – overspending and the frantic running around at the last minute to get a tie for Uncle Harry and the dusting powder for Grandma – the gifts given in desperation because you couldn't think of anything else.
Knowing he felt this way, I decided one year to bypass the usual shirts, sweaters, ties and so forth. I reached for something special just for Mike. The inspiration came in an unusual way.
 
Our son Kevin, who was 12 that year, was on the wrestling team at the school he attended. Shortly before Christmas, there was a non-league match against a team sponsored by an inner-city church. These youngsters, dressed in sneakers so ragged that shoestrings seemed to be the only thing holding them together, presented a sharp contrast to our boys in their spiffy blue and gold uniforms and sparkling new wrestling shoes. As the match began, I was alarmed to see that the other team was wrestling without headgear, a kind of light helmet designed to protect a wrestler's ears. It was a luxury the ragtag team obviously could not afford. Well, we ended up walloping them. We took every weight class. Mike, seated beside me, shook his head sadly, "I wish just one of them could have won," he said. "They have a lot of potential, but losing like this could take the heart right out of them." 
 
Mike loved kids – all kids. He so enjoyed coaching little league football, baseball and lacrosse. That's when the idea for his present came.
That afternoon, I went to a local sporting goods store and bought an assortment of wrestling headgear and shoes, and sent them anonymously to the inner-city church. On Christmas Eve, I placed a small, white envelope on the tree, the note inside telling Mike what I had done, and that this was his gift from me.
 
Mike's smile was the brightest thing about Christmas that year. And that same bright smile lit up succeeding years. For each Christmas, I followed the tradition – one year sending a group of mentally handicapped youngsters to a hockey game, another year a check to a pair of elderly brothers whose home had burned to the ground the week before Christmas, and on and on.
The white envelope became the highlight of our Christmas. It was always the last thing opened on Christmas morning, and our children – ignoring their new toys – would stand with wide-eyed anticipation as their dad lifted the envelope from the tree to reveal its contents. As the children grew, the toys gave way to more practical presents, but the small, white envelope never lost its allure.
 
The story doesn't end there. You see, we lost Mike last year due to dreaded cancer. When Christmas rolled around, I was still so wrapped in grief that I barely got the tree up. But Christmas Eve found me placing an envelope on the tree. And the next morning, I found it was magically joined by three more. Unbeknownst to the others, each of our three children had for the first time placed a white envelope on the tree for their dad. The tradition has grown and someday will expand even further with our grandchildren standing to take down that special envelope. Mike's spirit, like the Christmas spirit will always be with us."
 
For the Man Who Hated Christmas 
(A true Christmas Story by Nancy W. Gavin, December 2015)















An unlikely and adorable bond has formed at the Denver Zoo in Colorado, US. Baya, a 16-year-old howler monkey, and Rebecca, a 6-year-old capybara, have become inseparable friends while sharing an enclosure. The zoo staff noted that they are the only two females in their habitat, which is believed to have cemented their affectionate relationship.
The duo has been spotted frequently snuggling and cuddling together, with Baya often taking shelter on Rebecca's back. Jessica Newell, an assistant curator at the Denver Zoo, commented that the monkey seeks comfort and support from the capybara because Rebecca is very calm.
Although both species are native to South America, this kind of close interaction is rare in the wild. Zoos often group them together due to their overlapping natural habitats and generally docile dispositions. Their surprising friendship highlights how companionship can be found even across species lines.

 



  
 
A 6 minute video, The Secretary Bird, here
 


  
 
Just because ...

South Asian Finch


In the sun-drenched grasslands of South Asia, this tiny ember-bright finch slips between reeds with quick, sparkling movements. It feeds on the smallest seeds and tender shoots, selecting each grain with almost delicate care. What makes it extraordinary is the quiet way it renews its habitat — by scattering seeds as it forages and pruning dense patches of grass, it helps sustain the very meadows it depends on. A flicker of crimson in the fields, yet a gentle custodian of the grassland’s rhythm.


 

Friday's Smiles ... 

 















   





        Hoping you feel all the good things in your day.


  


 


4 comments:

Carrol Wolf said...

Good Morning Jacki, Happy Belated Birthday. At our age, it isn't just a day. It can be a week or even a month of celebrations to still be alive on this earth, and lucky enough to participate with our families and friends. I had read this lovely story before, and it is always worth reading again. (Particularly because I forget parts of it.) But I think it proves that their still is kindness and goodness in the human race. Although I am certainly not saying all of them! A cute story from my granddaughter, Maya, who is now eight. She has had her own imaginary universe for quite a while. (And it's inhabited by lots of cats rather than dogs, although she makes an exception for Bentley because he is family.) Anyway we were talking about poor people who don't have enough food. She told me there are no poor people in her universe. I asked her how that happened. She told me it is because everyone in her universe is kind. And all they would have to do is ask another person to help. Some wisdom coming from a child. Sometimes I think they and dogs are the wisdom holders that we should emulate. Let me know if you like the books. I don't read as much as you, because I like to do art, and also I read as relaxation: very slowly. But you have given me many great recommendations.

jacki long said...

Thank you Carrol, my dear friend. For me, I think balance is a bg part, and I am not always in balance. I tend to overdo what I especially enjoy, and "under-do"? some of the things that would be good for me. Last year WW said, "Mom, you're 83, you get to do whatever you want to do! Enjoy it!" That has been dangerous! ;o)

elenor said...

Jacki, I hope you enjoy your birthday and spend it in good company.
I wonder if creating your daily blog gives you meaning and structure, something we need so much, especially in our age. You can be so proud of your always wonderful 4858 posts. It's a pleasure I'm looking forward to every day. I hope you go on with it for another year. And then another, ....
I didn't think three weeks weren't enough for my birthday card to get to you. Sorry, Jacki.
Best birthday wishes again.

jacki long said...

Thank you, dear Elenor. Yes, my birthday was fine. Erin will be coming to Orange County this weekend, so I will see her and the family Saturday. Seems like the birthday gets stretched out a bit, but that;s fine. The internet makes it lovely to get kind messages, A former student took me to dinner and a movie last Saturday, so that was a special pre-birthday treat. Take good care.